Female Pleasures

Female Climax Multi-Pleasure Peaks

The female body can achieve a climax from stimulation of the G-spot, a small area behind the female pubic bone surrounding the urethra and also from the klitoris. It is possible that some women have more extensive klitoral tissues and nerves than others, and so that some women can achieve climax only by direct stimulation of the external part of the klitoris. Self hypnosis can be an excellent aid for boosting romance and passion. Inability to reach a climax or anorgasmia, is very common, and mostly psychological. As a general guide, most female G-spots can be found at the roof of the vagina (that's the side closest to her stomach.). It's about the size and shape of a coin and can be found about 10cm inwards. There are many erogenous zones that can be stimulated to create extra pleasure. Apart from being nice and attractive, the female neck is perhaps one of the most sensitive areas of the body. Softly touching, licking, kissing this area from the shoulder to below the ear, while at the same time massaging it with the tongue can send tingles up and down the spine. Some girls get the tickles when you start sucking on the ear lobes, some like it, but others simply adore it. One can even whisper erotic phrases into the ear at the same time. The female nipples become hard and erect when stimulated with your tongue. The belly button is another area you should stimulate before full inter-course. Kissing this area with your lips and tongue will vibrate through her reproductive area. Experimentation is the key to find out what works best.

Recommended Reading

I love Female O: By Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller. There are few people who wouldn't get something out of reading this marvelous new book. Educators Dorian Solot and Marshall Miller manage to cover a wide range of sexual subject matter, from the basics of first-time to esoteric Tantric practice, all focusing on female climax, without once making you feel bad if you aren't having a climax or if your climax aren't what you want them to be. The book is a blend of practical hands on tips, interesting trivia, and helpful ideas for improving communication.

The Elusive O: A Woman's Guide to Why She Can't and How She Can O. By Vivienne Cass. A wonderfully supportive book that doesn't tip around the problems women have reaching climax, and offers direct advice, homework exercises, and guidance for women who aren't having climax, or aren't having them as regularly as they'd like. It's also filled with some of the best illustrations of female anatomy I've ever seen. Written by an Australian therapist, reading The Elusive O sometimes feels like you're sitting down in session with Cass who offers passionate encouragement to go out and explore on your own.

The Science of O: By Barry Komisaruk, Carlos Beyer-Flores, and Beverly Whipple. This excellent book offers an up to date overview of biological and physiological research about o´s. While many of the chapters are not written with laypeople in mind, for anyone curious about sexual science, a little patience, and a good dictionary, the results are well worth it. This book is not a how-to on climax, but it is a welcome and much needed addition to the relatively scant body of scientific research on climax.

How To Have Them, Give Them, And Keep Them Coming. by Lou Paget. Educator and best selling author Lou Paget sets out to clear-up some of the mystery of climax and offers practical exercises and advice for couples and individuals looking for ways to explore sex together and develop greater climax. Paget's books are so popular because they are enjoyable and easy to read, offering supportive advice, never preaching, and focusing on the real goal, which is the experience of pleasure and not competition.

Female O and the G Spot: Not Your Mother's Climax Book. By Deborah Sundahl. This book is not for those starting out to discover climax, and might be considered in the "advance climax" curriculum. But for those who are curious about the g spot and female ejaculation, Sundahl offers one of the most complete, informed and detailed books on the subjects. This one of a kind educational handbook covers history, research, anatomy, workshops, exercises, and plenty of straightforward guidance on exploring g spot stimulation and female pleasure.

Multi O Man. By Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams. A simple and straightforward guide to learning about male multiple climax. Mantak Chia is a master of Taoist and has spent a great deal of time teaching in the West. The result are teachings that offer some of the spirituality, but in a North American package. This book offers easy to follow exercises both for men alone and with partners, and encourages men to expand their potential without requiring them to adhere to a specific set of spiritual beliefs.

Multi O Woman. By Mantak Chia & Rachel Carlton Abrams. Following the successful model of the Multi O Male, this title offers the same straightforward information, including quizzes and homework exercises to help women explore their pleasure potential, with a goal to experiencing multiple climax. As with Chia's earlier books, there is a spiritual underpinning here, but it isn't pushed on the reader.

O for Two. By Betty Dodson. This book does for partner pleasure S for One did for self-touching It cuts through social convention offering concrete advice on how to have more climax during the act with your partner. Dodson is a champion of the individual and this book speaks to couples while focusing on personal pleasure. With over thirty years of teaching women to climax, Dodson may be one of the only people deserving of the title O guru.

Becoming Pleasure. By Julia R. Heiman, Leslie LoPiccolo, and Joseph LoPiccolo. A straightforward guide written by therapists for women who don't experience (or don't regularly experience) climax. Some may find this book too clinical, but for anyone who likes step by step instructions, exercises, and to the point information, Becoming Pleasure is a great resource. The Becoming Pleasure video which is a visual companion to the book, is available separately.

S for One: By Betty Dodson. An essential read, S for One is Dodson's groundbreaking work on climax. Both personal and political in its call for all of us to make better love to ourselves, it has none of the smarmy self-help lingo, but is inspiring and practical. Betty Dodson is a revolutionary teacher, and everyone should read at least one of her books in their lifetime. 208 pages. 1996.

The Function of the Climax: Definitely not a how-to book, The Function of the Climax is only for those who want to explore the scientific and philosophical underpinnings of the climax. Reich, who was a psychoanalyst and was cast out from Sigmund Freud's inner circle, devoted most of his life to exploring the climax and the relationship between energy, and human experience. Not all of his theories make sense, but his thinking on climax has influenced more than one generation of writers, researchers, and lovers. If you're going to read one academic work on climax, this is the one to read.