You may
have fantasized about taking revenge on someone or even
become obsessed about
it.
Maybe
this person betrayed you, was dishonorable or made you feel
bad.
Maybe
you have heard of the phrase sweet revenge and thinking
about getting your own back may
make
you
feel good, but this is a momentarily feeling and would cause
more pain to yourself in the end.
You should
be focusing on moving forward, because your efforts are
better spent on your own self care or recovery.
Revenge
can be too motivating and can blur your rationality that's
why its always best to avoid revenge.
You have
to quit thinking about it from the angle of your 'rights'
and start thinking about what actions would be best for
improvement
