Ever
wondered why no matter how hard you try certain male
gestures and customs keep slipping through? Maybe you
can concentrate on walking like a lady with a feminine
posture, but when something distracts your attention, the
old masculine traits sneak up on you.
This is
because you still have all those male memories deep inside
your subconscious mind. Maybe your mind has been bombarded
with a lifetime of thoughts, and customs, and these thoughts
come from deep within, from the old male shell. To become
fully feminized the first important pass is to become an
expert in make over. The perfect shade of lipstick, the
length of your eye lashes, highlights, rouge, and the shape
and length of your eyebrows for your type of face, using the
correct colors.
It's
very difficult to become a passable with short hair
unless your facial characteristics are very feminine. It can
work for some transsexuals but more often than not, it's
better to grow your hair, and the longer the better. Some
volume also helps to create femininity, but some MTFs and
transvestites also look fantastic with Japanese style long
silky straight hair, depends on each individual bone
structure. You could have gorgeous long wavy hair for part
time crossdressing, and then just tie it up as a ponytail
when back at the office.
Some
transsexuals are just blessed with small rounded
feminized faces and can get away with anything. When this is
not the case, special care must be given to your facial
expressions. While we are talking to someone we are using
thousand of facial muscles. We use thousands of various
expressions using our lips, eyebrows, forehead, cheeks, and
99% is done automatically. These automatic gestures are
controlled by our subconscious mind, and this is where all
the data is stored just like a hard drive. We can change
this data and rewrite new messages by opening the door to
the subconscious using self hypnosis. see
the self-hypnosis program, click
Some
crossdressers like me have the unfortunate task of
having to hide a manly jawbone. this can be done by an
expert make over and by using the correct muscles. this is
very difficult to do in public without slipping back, but
with the help of hypnosis the muscles can be trained to stay
a certain way, feminine and ladylike.
Having
always a natural beauty since teen age, I needed to
increase the softness of my skin, and change the
distribution of my fat deposits to become a real woman. I
listened to the audios twice per week, and I did experience
the flow of natural feminized sexual hormones into my body,
vital and natural. It was like a recreation of my sexual
system, transforming my body and mind. This method of
self-hypnosis was working a treat.
I felt
myself continually checking and copying other ladies, from
the television, street, and wherever I saw them. I was
unconsciously and automatically copying gestures, types of
walk, smiles, mannerisms, posture, and details of other
girls. It was for me a truly natural way to become a true
woman even before transformation surgery.
Sometimes
looking pretty is not enough. Many gorgeous FTMs lose it
when they start to talk. Some transgenders may even have a
high tone, but they haven't mastered the art of speech.
Women say different things, and different words. You must
know how to construct feminine phrases. This is a very
important part of crossdressing and transgenderism.
A very
important part of the life of a transgender is finding a
perfect partner. This does not always mean male, a large
proportion of crossdressers are sexually attracted to women.
Psychological self help programs can boost self esteem and
confidence to amazing levels. With a new powerful sense of
self worth, value and self love, it's so easy to flirt,
seduce and attract a partner. With a high level of self
confidence,it's much easier to break the ice, and feel proud
of yourself. I listened to my own audio programs with self
hypnosis to become confident enough for dating and to seduce
my partner.
"I felt
the size of my breasts growing every day naturally, nothing
extraordinary, it was slow, but steady. I always wanted to
own bigger full breasts. I could feel the muscles and
tissues around my breasts slowly transforming making them
rounded, and bigger. I could feel the flow of blood in the
chest zone, more concentrated as if I had more estrogen
hormones making my breasts feel more heavy and
attractive."
The male
body can convert the male hormone testosterone into a female
hormone called estrogen causing gynocomastia (bodybuilders
who take too much testosterone often grow "bitch tits"
because the body is very clever at counteracting the effects
of too much testosterone, by converting it to estrogen). The
Mp3 sessions helped me to experience the delight of silky
hair, it becomes full, strong, soft and shiny.
The
best way to become truly feminine is to have lots of
female friends, open your mind and become receptive to
learning. There's no need to copy their exact attitude in
that particular moment, because sometimes when it's
overworked or not done right it looks ridiculous. Sometimes
it's better to just observe and get into the aura, and later
at home or even while you sleep your mind will be organizing
all those female thoughts. You'll be observing other ladies
on TV or using the internet such as Youtube.
Another
great trick is to place a notepad and a pen by your bed
at night, and say to yourself "I want to dream of being a
woman" three or four times. when you wake up, just take the
pen and write down the first word that comes into your head,
soon after you'll remember the rest of the dream. We dream
every night, and we forget them, but by using the notepad
technique we'll remember 90% of our dreams. This is a
guaranteed sure method of recalling all your dreams. I have
over 8 years of dream recollection which often help me in
life.
You
must take great care of your skin, especially on your
face and hands. It's wise to take advice from an expert, and
do many tests on various cosmetics and creams to find one
which suits you best. I often use a cream on one half of my
face for a few months and see the difference.
With the
help of hypnosis your mind will be constantly copying
other women, especially the more feminine ladies, and
learning how to express yourself with feminine gestures. Men
and women have a different way to move the arms and hands,
especially when we are talking and making hand movements. A
masculine hand gesture just gives off a bad signal.
Dress
sense. You may think it's obvious to say that dress
sense is important, but it's not enough just to put on a
dress, stockings and high heels. You must take into account
your age, height, build, and whether you need to take off a
few pounds or to place a few extra pounds in certain areas.
Pink is a
very feminine color but it doesn't suit all of us.
Sometimes being overdressed looks ridiculous. In the
beginning you should ask as many people as possible for
honest critical advise, and get to know what suits you
best.
You
will feel more feminine every day. The lady is
flourishing and very soon bursting out of you. The natural
power inside you will be activated, the flow of feminizing
hormones circulating around your system. Your body will be
forced to convert testosterone to estrogen. The audio
recordings will enable you to feel and look more like a
lady, and will also help you to feel more confident with
your new self, as a woman. Paul's hypnosis will help you to
change into the woman of your dreams. Your physical
appearance is very important in society, and with this help,
you will achieve success.
Are you
tired of people noticing your masculinity slipping
through, and fed up with giving yourself away, and getting
distracted, the male shell slips back. Would you prefer to
walk just like a typical women without being too forced?
then the following program will help you to achieve a
perfect feminized appearance. It's easy enough to copy a
woman, but being a woman is another matter. You can copy
certain expressions and gestures, just like an actress,
certain speech, walk, posture, but not everything and not
all at once. To achieve complete feminine movements and
natural expressions you need to change the old messages in
your subconscious mind and overwrite them with new fresh
female affirmations.
This is
my favorite lady, notice the make up, the painted lips
slightly parted with volume, with the perfect hairstyle for
her type of profile. Not too much mascara on the lashes, and
a slight tilt, feminine jewelry, and her eyes give off an
aura of beauty.
To become
fully feminized you have to learn about using the correct
jewelry, depending on what you want to hide, or to
highlight, but too much jewelry looks too obvious and not
very ladylike.
Here's
the importance of expressing femininity through your
eyes. When you learn to do this, it will boost your
femininity more than makeup. The sparkle has to shine
through and give off the message of "I'm adorable" They say
that your eyes are the gateway to your soul, and I can
testify that your eyes are probably the most important
aspect of expressing your true femininity.
A
slight pencil line around the lips will create necessary
volume and enhance the female beauty,must not be overdone.
Facial hair must be kept invisible at all times. I use a
hand held laser hair removal device and it works great for
me, it's a slow process but works well. Five years ago I did
my eyebrows and the hair never grew back. I'm now working on
my beard, but I've got thousands of nasty hairs to
remove.
The
hormones responsible for our female characteristics are
called estrogen. Men also have the female hormone estrogen
but in smaller amounts,and ladies also have a small amount
of testosterone. By keeping our testosterone levels low and
boosting our levels of estrogen we become more feminine. The
skin becomes smoother, the hair silky and shiny, and the
breasts will enlarge. The order to produce more or less
hormones originates in our brain, and this can be
manipulated using various methods including self hypnosis.
Testosterone can be converted easily into estrogen, and
often causes gynocomastia (breast growth) in many
bodybuilders, so most of them take anti-estrogen
drugs.
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