In today's society
especially in certain parts of the world people are still
living in the dark ages with the acceptance and understand
of homosexuality. Many gay men feel repressed, frustrated,
and often withdrawn because they are still not yet free to
live a normal life without hiding their sexuality.
Some gay men are openly
free and liberated and can talk about their sexual
orientation easily to anyone, but only in certain modern
countries such as Spain, Australia, UK etc. while others
don't actually hide their sexual feelings but instead prefer
a low cover because they are afraid of what friends and
family may think.
The following set of Mp3s
will transform a shy gay man into a confident, openly free,
and proud person.
With this program there's
no need to hide or shy away from anything. Step by step
system for coming out of the closet.
You will feel a new
self-love full of ego and pride, and able to walk with your
head held high and feel 100% part of society, equal, free,
and normal.
I like
other males but I'm not homosexual, what help is there for
me?
Maybe you
have an identity problemor a bit confused. I doubt that
you're pretending to be heterosexual, but your feelings are
completely unacceptable to you. When you recognize that a
homosexual nature does exist, then it can make you
sensitive, and self-conscious. You should be careful now at
this stage and try not to force yourself to be black or
white just yet.
Homosexuals
who wish to come out of the closet and feel proud of their
sexuality, should concentrate on boosting self esteem and
self-assurance, especially when confronted with a direct
association towards their sexuality, and also for dating,
and meeting new friends. Self-hypnosis is the most effective
solution.
Acceptance,
Dating, Pride & Self-assurance
Can I
come out of the closet in one day?
People
don't realize that coming out has predictable, observable
stages. When you become familiar with the stages, you can
learn to know where are your friends and how they'll
progress. The special downloads for homosexuality can help
you to understand these stages. Stages do not necessarily
occur in the same order. Gay guys may jump back and forth,
in and out of each stage or linger in some as well. It may
be years before some men move on, but self-hypnosis is a
solution for implanting a new message of self-assurance and
pride deep into your subconscious mind forever.
There are
various stages that guys usually go through while coming out
of the homosexual closet. Firstly they may feel confused,
then compare themselves to other gays, the tolerance stage
is where they are simply tolerating their sexuality without
totally coming out, then we have the acceptance stage, and
finally pride. The following self-hypnosis program has been
designed to boost your self esteem, ready for coming out and
or dating.
I have
a gay neighbor who has dyed hair, piercings, tattoos, and
wears pro gay T-shirts, he delights in shocking others,
kissing in public and telling everyone about his
homosexuality, to draw attention, will a program using
self-hypnosis make me like him?
His
rebellious attitude will fade away soon enough, it's similar
to a Hetero adolescent in the teen phase, even though he may
have an older body, it's still immaturity. The following
program has been designed to promote enough self esteem,
that sexuality becomes a normal, private, and personal
theme.
I hate
heterosexuals for making me feel bad about my
sexuality?
The
combination of anger and pride impels you to become heavily,
passionately angry especially against homophobic men. Maybe
you would like to be involved in rights organizations and
gay-pride marches. Men in the forefront of certain marches
are often predominately those in the latest stages of
coming-out. At this stage of integration, the "them and us"
concept breaks down. Homosexual males begin to understand
that not all heterosexuals are homophobes. Like older males,
they can now relax their militant stance and reintegrate
themselves into society. They understand that there are
"good straights" and "bad straights," that homophobia does
not need to dominate their life, and that they can relate to
both gays and straights without losing any self-assurance.
The following self-hypnosis audio-therapy will help you to
understand heterosexual feelings as well as other
homosexuals.
I am
not ready to become fully gay, but I really want to come out
of the closet, what can I do?
There are
various self help groups that can give you some good advice,
or even use the following program to change your simple
tolerance to accepting yourself, and discover a new sense of
identification and belonging to the community as a whole.
You may feel increasing anger at homophobic segments of
society, which is not unhealthy, while your doubts and
self-hatred that were once directed inward are now turned
outward at more deserving targets.
I have
a friend who is very promiscuous, obnoxiously loud, and
party's too much, I would hate to be this type of
person?
This is
just an acting-out behavior all part of the coming out, and
usually lasting only 2 to 3 years, and has little to nothing
to do with identity.
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