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 Hypnotic Seduction

 

 

1. What makes us attractive

 

There have been many experiments to discover the keys to attraction and seduction. After testing hundreds of men and women scientists are closer to discovering what makes us become attractive to the opposite sex. It's not such a simple task, because we (just like other animals) have been evolving for millions of years trying to attract a mate that will produce the strongest, healthiest offspring. There are hundreds of factors, tips, tricks, hypnotic subliminal messages, and advice that work in harmony, and some stand out from the rest.

  • Smell or pheromones (ladies were asked to smell T-shirts and choose the best)
  • Physique: (wide shoulders, symmetry, manly jaw. Ladies, wide hips, big lips, breasts)
  • Walk, and posture, the way you move your head, make a man highly attractive.
  • Eyes: Larger dilated pupils seemed to be attractive, & subliminal eye messages.
  • Gestures: (kinesics) we express messages. Italians like to talk with their hands.
  • Expressions: Our face has thousands of tiny muscles that express communication.
  • Micro-expressions which are automatic and uncontrollable, and often give us away,
    are rapid movements that express our emotions, (often used by airport security)
  • Image and social status, dress, friends, your watch, phone, computer, accessories
  • Ability to interpret the subliminal language and the invisible messages of a person
  • Genetics: the bigger the difference in the DNA then the stronger is the attraction

 

2. Why 99% of seduction programs fail

 

wrong expressionsYou may learn thousands of tricks and seduction tips that may attract women when engaged in harmony, but the human brain can only concentrate on 3 or 4 things at a time, and maximum seven. So maybe you'll be constantly checking your posture, your tone of voice, and your conversation, and give yourself ten points in your favor, but the other thousands of subliminal messages and micro-expressions that you give off using your forehead, arm movements, hands, eyes, etc. will probably unknowingly lose you thousands of points. The only possible way to control your thousands of subliminal messages every second is by letting your body do this automatically, it must be automatic and natural, and can be achieved using self-hypnosis!
Automatic body gestures, micro-expressions, and responses are controlled by our subconscious mind. There are a few ways to tap into our subconscious mind and enter a trance state, but
hypnosis is by far the most effective method. You need to wipe away unwanted thoughts and replace them with affirmations of charisma, sociability, sincerity, pride, etc. to convert you into an irresistible attraction, and fill your life with love.

3. Build your self-assurance

 

build confidenceAlthough many women are put off by arrogance, superiority, they also shy away from weak men. Expressing a lack of self-esteem, is also doomed to failure. Women love optimistic men, those who walk with pride, who know their goals and ambitions, and trust in themselves. For these men the cup is always half full, and they express their optimism with their proud gestures and positive expressions. The best advice for you to build confidence is by changing the chip, wipe away those old, annoying negative pessimistic thoughts, and to replace them with self-worth, value, responsibility, security, courage, and pride, and you can do this today by reprogramming your subconscious mind using the hypnosis downloads.

4. Forget the Past and move on

 

  • Sometimes breaking up is painful, but you must forget, ignore your ex and move on,
  • Enjoy your new life, and forget any past associations, such as places and photos,
  • Never talk about your ex on a new date,
  • Wipe out those memories, (even the nice ones for the moment)
  • Delete any phone numbers or contact.

    If you need help with this check out the self-hypnosis downloads

5. Seduce women with your eyes

 

seduce women with your eyesYour eyes, the window to your soul, can reveal your personality like an open book. Without saying a single word we can express joy, excitement, sadness, fear, strength, anger, and seduction. We can communicate everything nonverbal by using only our eyes. Even without speaking our eyes can communicate for us, and subliminal language is one of the best seduction secrets.
If we get it wrong our eyes can give off a bad impression. Try to avoid looking up because this usually means boredom. Looking down probably gives off the impression of shame or guilt. Narrowing the eyes produces a look of suspicion.
In general you should hold your gaze for a slight moment or one second longer than usual without leeching, as too much gazing is consider an awkward stare. If you want to express surprise or joy, open your eyes wide, beaming with positive emotion.

6. Subconscious mind for seduction

 

Can I hypnotize a woman to take her to bed?

No! That would be witchcraft and it's not possible to control, manipulate, or dominate, a woman to do anything against her will because she will just wake up and disagree.

Yes, you can overcome : Shyness, lack of self-esteem, guilt, shame, fear of rejection and negative thoughts will probably be an obstacle for dating which can be overcome using self-hypnosis. The mind can also be programmed to read the subliminal body-language of another person and instantly know how to react. If you put your foot in it, and say something that goes against her personality then you'll know exactly how to compensate and gain points. You'll be able to express virility, sincerity, security, self-esteem, pride, with enhanced voice control, natural ability for breaking the ice, and the manipulation of your body language, charisma, sociability, and magnetism.

Your new programmed subconscious mind is not only useful for attracting women but also for interviews, public speaking, meeting friends and giving off an influential image, which is contagious. Example, you go to a supermarket and you express your attractive happy image, this will give you a positive reaction, and the women will either give you a nice admiring look, a lovely smile, or say something beautiful to you, and in turn will make you feel good for the rest of the day.

7. Advice to become an alpha male

 

alpha maleWomen not only smell testosterone, they can judge virility from across the room. Every move you make is giving off subliminal signals of either femininity, masculinity, or in-between.

The three main techniques and tricks for becoming more virile and masculine are:

  • Masculinization self-hypnosis (to walk, smell, talk, stand, sit, and look like a real man)
  • Nutrition (the estrogenic foods to avoid, and the masculizing foods such as tomatoes)
  • Weight-training (to release more natural testosterone and growth hormone)

8. Physical Image

 

build muscleTo add an extra advantage for attracting women it helps to have an athletic physique, not too much muscle, but just enough manly mass, especially around the shoulders, abs, and butt. Not only will this extra muscle improve your image but will increase your manly testosterone levels, endorphins, and help you to express a healthy look. But remember that your body is only a minor factor in your seductive power.

An amazing body can give you about 30 points out of a 100 but a man with excellent emotional intelligence can gain 70 points. Going to the gym too often and becoming obsessed with your physique will go against you because it gives you a false sense of self-esteem. A six pack ab rack is similar to owning a Ferrari, it's materialistic, and diverts your attention from more important qualities, such as personality, character, wit, self-value, charisma, experience, and sociability.

9. Breaking the Ice

 

breaking the iceBreaking the ice is all about self-assurance and self-esteem. You have to ignore everyone else and concentrate only on your target. Without her knowing, you first need to check as much detail about her as possible, such as her hairstyle, her jewelry, handbag, shoes, and look for something interesting, truthful and complimenting to say. Try to be original and different, although authentic and sincere. Breaking the ice needs a lot of practice, so you must work on this with all types of ladies until it becomes natural. If you have any problems with fear of rejection or feeling worthless, then you must write down a list of all the negative thoughts or issues that could occur and work on each one until you have enough pride in yourself. You have to appear natural and master the art of conversation for seduction.

10. Role playing

 

cowboyChildren often replicate their heroes in the school yard, and they find it easy to put themselves into the shoes of someone else. Role playing is a quick automatic seduction trick for instantly changing your personality, to forget your inhibitions, shyness, and lack of self-assurance to become a charismatic celebrity for the day.
Put yourself in the shoes of your favorite hero e.g. Tom Cruise, Daniel Craig, celebrity, actor e.g. Brad Pitt, powerful man like Stallone, Arnold, Vin Diesel, a fighter such as Tyson, Dwayne Johnson, Klitschko, Bruce Lee, or even a funny man such as Wil Smith, Tom Hanks, Robin Williams.

11. Warm and friendly or dominant?

 

When you first meet a potential date (a beautiful woman) it's important to appear friendly, sweet, caring, loving, but at the same time you should give off the expression of strength and pride. If you only concentrate on being warm and friendly, always sweet and polite the lady will see you as just a brother or a gay friend, so at the same time you need to show some dominance. A strong powerful man is more attractive than a weak permissive man, but without any expression of care and respect, the man will just appear arrogant, and big-headed. This is not easy because these both aspects of character are totally opposite. You could try using your smile to express warmth, and care, while using your eyes to give off an impression of strength and dominance. Some men use the technique of changing roles every couple of minutes between sweet and lovely to strong and powerful, a bit like Clark Kent.

12. Fear of Rejection

 

far of rejectionTo become a great seductive player to attract beautiful women you need to practice. The fear of rejection will only force you down a descending spiral of negativity and portray an image of a loser. Rejection is not failure. A woman may love chocolate, while another may hate it, that's just personal taste, and that's why we see ugly men with beautiful women and vice versa. When you understand that dating is not a competition of manhood and superiority you'll start to accept rejection. We are not male stags fighting for the female, because it's not a sport, we never win and we never lose. You may have the looks of Brad Pitt, and appear very attractive, friendly, loving, honest, powerful, clean and handsome, but if your genes are too similar to a particular woman she will reject you without even knowing why.....this is human nature, and part of the selection process to ensure that the offspring will have a wider variety of DNA, and makes our babies stronger and healthy.

When you have plenty of self-esteem, pride, and self-worth, then if a woman rejects your offer you simply think, "she loses, must be stupid" and you go on to the next woman just as confident as before because you believe in yourself. If you don't have enough confidence then rejection can make you feel even worse, as if you need that date to reassure yourself and when it fails you put even more blame on yourself. If this is your case then you need to practice talking with strangers as often as possible with all types of women, beautiful or plain, gorgeous or overweight, just going ahead over and over until you become immuned from a rejection.

13. First Impression: Men's wardrobe

As long as you are well groomed, clean, and polished you don't have to put too much attention or interest in your wardrobe. Men who go out of their way to buy the top designer clothes, expensive watch and cellphone, are not getting the point. As long as you are well groomed, polished, clean teeth and nails, no stains, you'll be fine. If you wish to woo a gold-digger using materialism then there's no need to continue reading, all you need is lots of money to splash around.

Try and dress for the occasion, dress for your age, dress for your personality. Women really hate to be with a man who looks ridiculous, so avoid outrageous Hawaiian shirts, tie too short, 1980 wedding jacket, red pants, cowboy boots, white socks

14. First Impression: Woman's wardrobe

 

fashionFor a woman the wardrobe is much more important because men at least in the beginning will rate you physically, and so a badly dressed women will put up a red flag. If you dress like a tart then you'll only attract a certain type of man, but if you dress with beauty, elegance, sophistication, and a touch of style, not only will you be attractive and hot, but will attract all types of men.

Some women choose a short red micro-skirt and transparent top thinking that men will notice them, but this is a mistake. A simple "hi" will also get you noticed.

15. More than just friends

 

good friendsIf you have been enjoying a long friendship with someone for years and you've started to see that person as more than just a friend and think that the time has come to ask for a date, forget it. It's more than likely that you have a nice relationship just like brother and sister, and if you go one step further you more than likely ruin your friendship. If you know that person for over a year and still nothing has happened it's because you're just not destined to become lovers. When both friends are together and there is a mutual sexual feeling then you'll both soon read these signs, and it's not something you can hide for years.

If you still want to go ahead and try the next level, you'll need lots of tact. Don't take the bull by the horns, but do it slowly with tiny innuendoes, and maybe say something like, "Wow you look very hot today, so sexy" with a bit of a laugh. After about two weeks of flirting you could go for dinner at a romantic restaurant and then maybe ask,

"If one day you had too much to drink, and we both ended up sleeping together how would you feel? Check the response, and if it's negative, shrug it off as a joke, and say, "yeah, me too, it would be so strange"

16. Your First Date

 

first dateIf you're taking a girl out on a date, avoid the cinema, it'll be too awkward, and the lack of conversation will be uncomfortable. If you must go to a club for a dance, leave it till the end of the night, because at first you should avoid noisy places, and try and get to know her better. A restaurant is probably the best place to start with. You need adequate lighting to be able to read her expressions, and with a quiet background music just enough to hold a conversation. Even though you may be nervous, you should hold back on the wine, and drink moderately, otherwise you may end up saying silly phrases and make a fool of yourself.

17. Transmit Relaxation

 

If you are nervous when approaching a woman, then she will subconsciously sense your state and think that something is wrong, and in turn make her uncomfortable. On the contrary, if you are able to transmit relaxation then she too will feel comfortable with you. Your goal is not just to feel relaxed but to actually transmit this feeling in the form of body-language, and expressions. Some people are actually quite bad in expressing how they really feel, and give off false signals, while others try too hard to give off a certain message and end up doing the opposite or appearing ridiculous. If you transmit worry then you'll put up a red flag, and the lady may respond by crossing her arms, legs together, and become defensive.

18. Sexy Breathing

 

People don't realize the importance of breathing correctly. While trying to seduce a woman you should have a relaxed system of breathing. Each breath should be rhythmic, and flowing, natural and deep. Singers know exactly how to breathe and probably have a better chance of attracting a date. If you are not sure of how to breathe, then simply practice in front of a candle, using your diaphragm. Place one hand on your chest and the other on your stomach, and then try to keep your chest still, and as you fill your lungs feel the stomach expand outwards. This type of breathing will reduce your pulse, and relieve stress, giving you a confident and relaxed image.

19. Interesting chatter

 

Only a geek would start to talk about nuclear science on a date. Men and women are different, we have different brains, minds, personalities and tastes, therefore you should be very aware of what the average woman finds interesting and what would be utterly boring. This doesn't mean that you should become an actor and pretend that you love to dress Barbies, or talk about the menstrual cycle, because there is always a common ground. In general it's wise to avoid topics such as football, sports cars, baseball, politics, and video games, and concentrate more on humor, trivia, fashion, celebrities, television, local news etc. Depending on each reaction you'll know whether to change the subject or to continue. You can plant several questions until you find a common interest, maybe starting with work or study, hobbies, taste in music, favorite TV programs, horoscope, food, wine, nightlife, live music, etc.

20. Looking for Gold

 

You have to be on the lookout for women who only have one goal in life and that's to marry a rich man. This type of woman (or man) may use her attractive qualities to entice and capture an susceptible man. More than likely this type of relationship will fail and the rich man will end up with a broken heart and a smaller wallet. If a wealthy man is trying to find a loving partner then the obvious wise method is to dress down, and hide any type of clue to wealth, without the Rolex, and avoiding expensive restaurants. Some men try to use their wealth to attract women, by flaunting with expensive sports cars, and splashing money around, but this foolish idea will only attract problems, because a genuine woman will not be exclusively impressed by wealth

 

 

 

 Top 15 Quick Dating Tips

Avoid silly corny pre-revised chat up lines

Practice breaking the ice with genuine, interesting questions

Learn to read the subliminal signals to check compatibility

Accept rejection as natural, normal, genetic, and inevitable

Use self-hypnosis to program your expressions

Dating is not hunting, it's all about getting to know people

Your posture, move, gestures, walk will paint your portrait

Don't try to meet women if you're sad, angry or stressed

Learn and practice your facial expressions in the mirror

Appear natural, sincere, charismatic with hypnosis.

A happy smile and a cute laugh is addictive and contagious

Don't go overboard with compliments, keep it natural

Be funny and down to earth, without being ridiculous

This download is all you need to find your soul-mate.

Don't be cold, be vibrant, alive, adventurous and exciting

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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